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Tuesday, 7 August 2018

Homemade Diaper Cream and Spray!

Have you ever considered using a diaper spray? Having a spray bottle ready when you're diaper changing helps loosen what's dried on the baby's bottom and cleanse their skin.

For cloth wipe users like myself, it's essential to have something to moisten the cloth wipes. However, even when I've used disposable wipes in the past, I like to clean my baby and then spray the solution on her bottom and wipe her clean again. This ensures she's 1) clean and 2) helps us to avoid rashes caused by ammonia buildup from urine or bacteria from solids.

My diaper changing routine is basically 3 steps, I can say that since I've implemented it we have not had any bad diaper rashes (except for when my kids have suffered diarrhea - changing that often makes babies prone to raw skin on their bottoms).

Step 1) Spray and wipe, spray and wipe. Two times is sufficient, sometimes 3 with toddlers. I don't want my child's bottom to just be 'visibly' clean. I want them clean- most of us use water in the bathroom so it makes sense that I would ensure they're just as clean.

Step 2) Wipe dry, air dry if possible. This isn't always an option when we're out and about but I always have 2 cloth wipes on hand when we are so that I can clean and dry their skin. If you use disposables, perhaps carry around a pack of tissues to blot them dry. Moist skin trapped in a diaper is one of the leading causes for yeast rash.

Step 3) I ALWAYS use a barrier on my baby. Unfortunately a lot of diaper creams are not suitable for cloth use, so we have had to resort to disposables during sickness so I can use Sudocreme. That all changed when I found out how to create my OWN easy diaper cream!

I've used products that I know you can get in the KSA!

Homemade Diaper Spray:
What you will need:

  • 1 Small Spray bottle
  • 1 tsp of coconut oil. We used Nirmal which we found at LuLu Hypermarkets. White bottle. 18 Sar.
  • 5-10 drops of tea tree oil (depending on the strength) we used one from the Body Shop. 20ml costs 58 Sar, a bit pricey- but well worth it considering you're not paying shipping. 
  • 60 ml of boiled water, lukewarm OR distilled water at room temperature. 
  • Some people use an all natural soap, a couple of drops. I have never found that I needed a detergent to clean my baby's skin. I don't like the idea of having it sit on their skin for long periods of time. A great option is castille soap, if you choose to add it.
  • 2 Tsp Raw Organic honey, no wax. My father in law is a beekeeper mashallah, so I get it for free. Find the best quality you can. 
Add the room temperature honey and water to your spray bottle. Add the coconut oil and tea tree oil. Shake vigorously. 

Honey, Tea tree, and coconut oil all have anti bacterial and anti microbial properties. Honey never goes bad. All of the ingredients will help decrease changes that your baby will develop a rash while moisturizing her skin.

Homemade Barrier Cream/ Diaper Cream:
What you will need:
  • 1 Pump bottle
  • 60ish ml of coconut oil, melted.
  • 20 drops of tea tree oil 
  • Bee's wax and Honey- approximately 2 tbs melted. 
  • 1 tbs cornstarch (I use a no talc baby powder that uses cornstarch)
In the microwave heat the honey and wax together for 20 seconds, until melted completely. Run it through some mesh and add it to 60 ml of Coconut oil. Add 20 drops of Tea Tree oil. Heat again for 15 seconds. Shake the bottle very well for 2 minutes. The ingredients will emulsify. While the mixture is still warm I add the baby powder/ cornstarch. Mix until it is completely dissolved into the cream. You will notice the cream will become slightly thicker. 

When this barrier cream goes on it will heal the skin and moisturize, while also creating an effective barrier on the baby's skin. It dries to a satin finish on the baby's skin eventually. The mixture is never sticky and smells a lot of honey and coconut. 

Wednesday, 4 July 2018

What's In My Hospital Bag?


This is MY hospital bag. I'll detail what's in D3's bag in a later post.

On YOUTUBE I have put up a video of my Hospital Bag!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XO7d5cZO7T8&t=15s

So, I'm almost 34 weeks and I like to be prepared. There are some advantages to prepping your hospital bag early. I don't think there is such a thing as being 'too prepared'! As we all know, labour can happen at any time. Having your hospital bag ready early means, god forbid you go into labour early, you can find comfort in knowing you have what you need when you need it.

To start, I'm packing everything in my Betty Johnson floral bag, it's large and has a variety of straps. I chose a bag that is easily identifiable and will stand out, it has a zipper inside as well as some inner pockets. I really like it!

Lets start:

Toiletries:
  •  Toothpaste 
  • Toothbrush
  • Floss
  • Soap
  • A face scrubber
  • Travel sized facial cleanser (I got some great free samples at The Face Shop which are the perfect size!)
  • Nail Clippers for me and baby
  • NOT pictured: Sanitary Pads! Get the biggest menstrual pads you can find!
  • Face Masks
  • Tweezers
  • Compact Mirror
    I love having little things to pamper myself with when I'm staying overnight at the hospital with the baby, it's important to feel good after birth.
  • Hair Elastics
  • A hairbrush
  • Something to move the hair from my face during the labour.

Medicine and 'help':

  • Hand Sanitizer
  • Alcohol swabs
  • 2 Tylenol (Acetaminophen) or Advil (Ibuprofen)- (just in case, I like to have them on hand overnight or if I'm getting discharged and I need some help. I suffer from terrible hormonal headaches, Tylenol is safe, Advil is safer for nursing mothers.) If you've been given painkillers already, consult your nurse if you can take them.
  • Nasal Saline Drops- helps to clear up a congested nose and help prevent sickness in the hospital. If you have a dry nose from dry air, these help. 
  • Eye drops, same as above. Hospitals are very dry, labour does a number to your body. It's good to find comfort where you can. 



  • My Pigeon Manual Breastpump, very cheap, easy to use. Found at most pharmacies. I use it to bring on labour (nipple stimulation releases hormones that help with the progression of labour), and to bring in my milk after the birth. 





  • Samples I got from Iherb.com to put in my hospital bag, for nutrition. I have a protein bar and powder, I will take some dates. They sell these samples for approx 3 SAR, which is excellent for travel/in the hospital bag. If I haven't had a chance to eat, at least some of this will give me a boost!

    Some extras:

  • Ear plugs, because hospitals are noisy at night. 
  • A good quality sleep mask that I kept from Saudi Airlines! Haha.
  • Socks!
  • Not pictured: Cheap flops/sandals/slippers.



  • Some wireless headphones, charged.
  • A novel
  • Not pictured: My phone, chargers, possibly my laptop if I have to stay at the hospital for a prolonged time. 



    The basics (not pictured):
  • 3 black underwear, high waist. 
  • A black nursing bra, bandeau, something that isn't wired, structured, or tight. 
  • Nursing pads
  • 2 night gowns
  • A robe
  • A cheap towel
  • My glasses
  • My ID



    On YOUTUBE I have put up a video of my Hospital Bag!

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XO7d5cZO7T8&t=15s




Sunday, 1 July 2018

Our YOUTUBE Adventure!


So, I thought the best way to show you product reviews is to make videos!

I'm just starting out, dabbing in something new. Naturally it's pretty rough right now, but inshallah I'll get better! This video was very long winded, I hope to make the videos short and to the point.

I will have help with video editing soon. We've decided to leave out music and I have decided to just show my hands at this point, so forgive me if it seems impersonal! I cover, so it would be a little weird to show my face all over youtube. I'm still trying to figure out how to do this so it's as interesting and interactive as possible!

Stick with us, I'll hopefully be able to review everything I've bought for baby.

Thank you all again for the support!

We have a new youtube channel:

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRCNLI1tfv8Tka5v_ure_hw

Come and join us there for more reviews and chats about Motherhood, products, and life in Saudi Arabia! 

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Thursday, 28 June 2018

When They Aren't Babies Anymore...

When they aren't babies anymore, you tend to let out a sigh of relief.
They no longer need you to eat or sleep.
Nap time isn't a struggle, D2 pops into my room and kisses my head. 33 weeks pregnant, and I'm the one who needs naps.

In the morning she wakes up on her own and I stir, I remember my baby who would climb on top of me and drool on my face. She would blabber about being hungry, pull at my nightgown for the breast. I'd be forced to get up, unless I wanted to wake up to a mess.
Now, instead, I hear her wake up and run into the playroom. Her sister follows her silently, they close the door over.
I get up, and the house is quiet. They're playing in their room, they're dressed. Cups of water sit on the table and the sink is wet from them washing their faces. My heart swells with pride. They did that? One less thing to think about. But, I am thinking about it. Behind the joy is a bit of sorrow, my babies have recently turned 4 and 6 and they aren't babies anymore. 

Motherhood is hard in the beginning. You are the universe for that tiny baby, it's overwhelming. You don't sleep unless they are, you can't eat unless they have. It's a major adjustment, and the thought of independence regained in a few years time gets you through it.

Then that time comes, and it comes all too fast. I spent the first 6 years of D1's life teaching her to be the big sister, the eldest, the wise one. I taught her how to take care of herself, to be patient when I was with her little sister. She was hurled into being a 'big girl' much sooner than D2. I look at her now, she can make a sandwich, she turns on the bathroom light for her little sister. 'Put on your underwear' she reminds her. It makes me proud, but it hurts. She loves to exclaim 'I am D1 and my father is (Baba) and I am a Saudi-Canadian.' She has an identity and owns it. She's a talkative and friendly little girl, sensitive yet logical. This year she'll go to school, she'll make friends and assert more independence. She'll come home with stories of her day, things I wasn't there for. Problems I wasn't there to solve. Joy I couldn't share. She'll not be a baby anymore.

D2 is independent whether I like it or not, she bounces from room to room collecting her toys without me asking. She helps me set the table before Baba comes home. She tells me her nails need to be cut and that she wants her hair done so she can go play. I remember her baby-talk as if it were yesterday, but she randomly runs into the room with full sentences, stories, and ideas. 'Hey, Mom. We can go shopping, we can make dinner together and get some ice cream. Yallah, mama.' Yes. We could. How many years did I wait to hear what was actually going on in her little head, the frustration on her face turning into full blown tantrums. At the time I wanted to scream, too. Now I know she just wanted to play, have her hair brushed, get some ice cream. She tells me. English? Arabic? Both? She's not a baby anymore.

Cherish the baby days. I'm embracing them this time. D3 will have the full baby experience, and I will still have hard days. I will probably still have to cry in the bathroom when I haven't slept enough, wish someone else could change her diaper while Baba is at work. Then I'll look at the other two, sigh, remind myself that it'll be over and the stress I feel is nothing compared to the sadness when this is all over.

I still let them in the family bed, feed them with my hands, cut their food. I still hold them and kiss their aches and pains away. I am desperately holding on to my babies. The tears flood my eyes, every time.
They wipe them away.


Friday, 22 June 2018

31 Week Pregnancy Update

This week passed quickly! We had a wonderful Eid, Eid Mubarak. We hope you did, too!

This week has been a bit of a downhill spiral in terms of how I feel. I was feeling excellent for the last month or so, but this week was hard. I don't know if it was the change in schedule, the delicious Eid foods, lack of sleep or what? I feel so tired.

Aside from feeling really tired, I have been experiencing some night-time restlessness, lots of braxton hicks contractions and leg cramps. My back hurts, too. At this size, this far into the pregnancy, I guess it makes some sense that I'm not feeling spry.

This will be a relatively shorter post, because while things are going to start happening rapidly, they're pretty slow right now. Eid took up the whole week, I didn't manage to buy anything or get anything ready.

While we were in Al Baha, we went into our storage room and dug through all of our boxes for baby stuff. I didn't come out with a lot for a newborn. I found my old baby carrier, the 'big baby' car seat (a convertible car seat not made for infants), a high chair (reliable ol' ikea), an umbrella stroller we use for travel (Chicco, 50$ at Walmart in Canada). D2's coming home outfit was an emotional find, we have decided to use it again for D3.

It's always a good idea for moms to check what they have saved from other babies, you'd be surprised how good the condition of baby items can be. They've only been used a short time, a lot of the time we don't actually need to repurchase anything. I found a lot of 3-6 month clothing that has gone through 4 girls in the family, and will be used for D3! The best way to save money is to stay on top of what you have and make lists. I have a new list, and I feel good about how little is actually on there!

If this is your first child, consider buying second hand or asking friends and relatives if they have anything left over. It doesn't matter how much money you have, it's great for the environment to reuse items. It's even better for your wallet. Plus, there is something special about used items with a personal history. I have a little dress that I remember my friend Suzie's small babies in, and then D1 and D2. I look forward to seeing D3 in it.

On the note of reusing items and fighting the urge to have 'all new' stuff for your baby, when it does come to things that you have to buy new, buy the best quality you can afford. As you will see in some up-coming reviews I have planned, I have purchased some nice items that I hope will last me at least another baby or two! (Inshallah). If I don't have another baby for some reason, it would be an item I'm proud to pass on to someone I care about.

What am I doing now?
I am still taking the dates, waiting for my Red Raspberry Leaf extract, Evening primrose pills.

What have I got this far?
I'm expecting a bit in the mail as well as a newborn shop this coming week! Check in next week for a summary of those items!

Thursday, 14 June 2018

30 Week Pregnancy Update


We're 30 weeks! This is such a big deal. I'm actually 30 and 6 days as I write this, but I can't believe we are here already.

For the first time I'm pregnant and a lot of my friend are, too. With my first two I was in my very early 20's and I didn't know anyone my age who was married or pregnant. It's been 4 years since my last daughter, and now it seems like everyone I know is pregnant! I've been really enjoying connecting with other women, it has made this pregnancy feel incredibly fast and has helped me to keep calm.

I've come to see how important community is. With my other daughters I embarked on this journey alone, at times it enabled me to do what I felt I had to without the input of others. Other times it was very lonely! I suffered because of the isolation and loneliness after my second daughter, it was the hardest 18 months of my life. Had I reached out and had other women to speak to, I highly doubt my situation would have been so unbearable. Motherhood is hard! No one should have to do it alone. 

I have friends who are a month behind me and a month ahead in their pregnancies. I love telling the moms who are a bit behind me about what I'm going through and how I've coped. In turn, seeing the moms a month ahead reaching the final weeks has been magical! One of my best friends is about a week away from delivery and I am dying to relive the moment with her and see her beautiful baby inshallah. 

This week has been huge in terms of growth. My belly is massive, and by massive I mean a giant obstacle. I've accidentally opened doors into my belly, hit the wall while turning corners, watched my kid's heads bounce off of me at every turn. It's exceedingly hard to bend over or lay on my back. I have always been one of those women who shows early and get big! This pregnancy is clearly no exception. Having girls between 4 and 5 kilos, I expect #3 to be just as big. Countless Doctors have asked me if I'm carrying multiples or if I have Gestational Diabetes, but I'm not and I don't. My body just really likes to show off!

My size surprises me, I'm a tall woman so I would never have expected pregnancy to show as much as it does. My own mother hardly looked pregnant. It just goes to show how different we all are! In terms of body image, I'm not exactly upset about my size. I usually have unusual confidence while I'm pregnant, I feel beautiful and it's the only time where I love my stomach. Being as big as I am (and you'll have to take my word for it), I feel like I look great. 

That's not to undermine those who don't feel as confident about their appearance during pregnancy. It's a massive change and can be startling. It's important to take care of yourself and keep up your routines so that you can feel as good as possible. The belly is temporary. So is the extra weight! If you love a full face of make up every day, it's really important that you keep it up. Do your hair, pamper yourself. If you give up your usual pampering because you feel out of control in terms of your appearance, it isn't going to help your self esteem. If you feel particularly bad about the changes your body is going through, remember you are growing a human. Talk to your doctor about managing your weight,talk to a friend, a therapist. It's important for you to look after your mental health as much as your physical health!

Every time you look in the mirror remind yourself: Your body is going through so much! You are doing something miraculous! This is not the time to be hard on yourself or worry about fitting into certain clothes. 

My thing is nails. I always have my nails done (at home) and if I don't shower, I spiral into a dark place. I think I've come to terms with the changes because I'm always on top of my hygiene and beauty routines, even when it gets hard (shaving legs doesn't get harder than this, my friends). Eating healthily and doing a little workout 3 times a week has also helped a lot. The best confidence booster, though? My girls patting my belly and saying, 'We love your big tummy, Mama.' My husband has also been super supportive this entire pregnancy, even going as far as to get me big nightgowns that are comfy and cute. Never underestimate the power of new pajamas!

What am I doing now?

I'm still eating the dates and drinking tons of water! Ramadan comes to an end tomorrow, so I'll be back to my usual 10ish glasses a day. 
Squats became difficult this week, so I'm taking it easy. I'm finding with certain movements I am getting pretty intense braxton hicks contractions. 
I have recently ordered Red Raspberry Leaf extract and Evening Primrose Oil so I can prep for the labour. I'll do a separate. post on what I'm doing and the outcome, later on. 

What have I got this far?

On a separate post I'll talk about the new baby carrier ($8 and decent quality) I've found. I will also be sharing a wetbag I got for 3$! With the help of my great friend Jess, I got some awesome baby sleep sacks from Carter's and Walmart in Canada (all on sale!). I can't wait to show you. 

That's everything this week! Let me know how far along you are and if any of your friends are pregnant at the same time!







Friday, 1 June 2018

Hello and Welcome!

Salam!

This is my first post, so I thought I'd introduce myself and what I'm all about.

My name is B.C and I'm a Canadian woman living in Saudi Arabia with my Saudi husband and 2 adorable daughters. I am about 30 weeks along with my 3rd daughter inshallah.

I'm passionate about natural living, which poses as a challenge here in Saudi Arabia because the availability of sustainable products is rare. I want to change that and show people how I've managed to save money and look after my girls for the past 6 years in the Middle East!

I love reviewing products and talking about ways that I make my life easier.

I'm reaching out to lovely moms everywhere in the Middle East so we can share and connect.

I hope that my experience here can help new moms or newcomers to Saudi Arabia get comfortable and find the best quality items for their children. I want to bridge the gap and offer all I have to help you feel a little less stressed and overwhelmed. Being a mom is hard, but it's so rewarding. If we work together we can achieve so much, motherhood is a sisterhood and I believe the key to surviving it is having friends.

I have a youtube channel and a facebook group, I'll be starting an instagram and a snapchat very soon.  I'll update you on all of that as we make this happen.

Here's to humble beginnings and great intentions.

Much love,
B.C at the Sandy Diaper.